As we approach the end of 2020, I thought I’d check in to see how you’re doing?
Lately I’ve read a lot of posts about how terrible the year was, how people really can’t wait to put this pandemic year behind them. And I understand, I really do. People are tired, they’re sick, they’re grieving, and may even be financially unstable. The future is uncertain. How do you face a new year when you don’t have a job or can’t make your mortgage payment?
But I wonder if the lesson of 2020 is learning to live with uncertainty? I mean, isn’t that what life is all about? Even in good times, we never really know what’s around the next bend. And sure, we can prep and save, create a stockpile of cleaning products and toilet paper, but there will always be an element of the unknown.
As I look back on 2020, I’m choosing to remember the good that came out of the year…
Celebrating my 50th birthday in lockdown by getting steakhouse takeout, and toasting my life at home with my husband and son. And then 2 weeks later honoring our 25th wedding anniversary with a similar celebration!
Zoom graduation with Adam Savage as the key note speaker (very cool) followed by spectacular takeout sushi from Morimoto’s.
The ability to go to work every day as an essential worker. Yes, wine is essential!
Becoming empty nesters in August when our son moved to Illinois for graduate school. I’m so proud of him for following his dream, even in the midst of a pandemic, and for having the mettle to make such a big move out on his own. And hubby and I have enjoyed getting to know one another again, as well as the peace and quiet!
Learning that dinner can be an omelet with a side of roasted broccoli. Or salmon with rice. Or wine and potato chips. Following the path to food freedom is a life-long journey that I’m relieved to have found this year.
Discovering in this year of separation that family and friends really make life worth living. And doing everything I can to foster those relationships – over video calls, texts, emails, and phone chats!
They say that hindsight is 2020, so I hope you can take a good, hard look at this past year and find your silver lining – something positive to carry on your journey into 2021.
I wish you all a Happy, Hopeful New Year!